My First Original Spread: For Difficult Conversations…

For Difficult Conversations

This is a snapshot spread to provide guidance for those times when you need to have a serious talk with someone— but aren’t sure how go about it.

Card 1 is the energy you should take into the conversation. This position can be modified also to be “where to start”.

Card 2 represents what you SHOULD address in the conversation. Of course, you already know what you need to say, but this card will give you advice on what issues to gravitate towards, what attitudes to keep as your central focus, etc.

Card 3 represents what you SHOULD NOT address in this conversation. Steer clear of talking about these issues, having these attitudes, etc.

Card 4 represents the energy you will leave the conversation with, or in plainer terms, the outcome. This can also be modified to be “where to end”.

Additional cards can be pulled for the middle two if further clarification is needed, or if this is a more complex conversation.



  1. seanbuchholz · May 4, 2014

    Reblogged this on Cups & Coins and commented:
    Boy, this spread couldn’t have come along at a better time. With all that’s going on at work, I know more than a few people (myself included) who could benefit from this spread.

  2. jmlibby · May 6, 2014

    Perfect timing! Thank you for sharing this 🙂

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