It takes a strong partner to understand the needs of her King of Wands and what can sometimes be viewed as a selfish and self-centred nature. However, the King of Wands has never declared himself as anything else and would have spelled it out crystal clear from the beginning that he is his own man and so lives his life as he chooses. He does like to have an independent life from his partner but this does not mean that he wants to be free to flirt or that he takes his partner for granted. He finds routine boring so a partner who is expecting him home at a certain time every evening will be sorely disappointed. In fact, if at any stage he feels he is being hemmed in or controlled by his partner, he will rebel and cause all sorts of show downs. Fiery outbursts can follow and the relationship can become increasingly rocky. Disaster will surely follow.